My approach
Holding space for the inner work of change
Our inner and outer worlds are deeply connected
What it means to be a good leader or practitioner is changing - understanding yourself better and understanding the systemic field and ‘connective tissue’ in which you are embedded, and the relationships between, is necessary for success and thriving. Those wanting to find new, healthier and more sustainable ways to lead and live are increasingly bringing a more conscious and intentional way of being and doing to their roles - a different stance or presence to their work.
I believe our inner and outer worlds are deeply connected and influenced by the past, the present and our sense of the future. Our behaviours, beliefs and patterns of reacting and relating are shaped by the conscious and unconscious in our worlds – our psychologies and our systems. Understanding and seeing anew the nature of these connections provides meaning for the inner and outer work of releasing old patterns that no longer serve, and is fundamental to my approach in supporting you with change.
A living systems perspective
I do this in the context of a living systems perspective - attending to the systemic connective tissue in which we are all embedded, looking for ways to feed and nourish the body of your life or leadership so that you can thrive and care for the health of the system and people around you, and fulfill your purpose and role.
Calm, still, relational space
To do this I offer a calm, still, relational space in which we can embark on this work together. As well as listening deeply to help you gain perspective, I’ll introduce you to systemic mapping and embodied and reflective practices that tap into the wisdom of your intuition, your body’s sensing, and the knowing of your head and your heart. Where helpful, I’ll share my knowledge of psychological models, theories and research. It’s usual to bump up against some sticky areas at times, this is natural before you find new pathways and powerful new resources for change.
Pragmatic, intentional, supportive
Always, we will keep attuned to the needs of your business or clients; our work together only exploring what’s necessary to help you move forward practically with the challenges you face or questions you hold.
This inner-outer work of change is best not done alone and needs a blend of both support and distance, reflection and action. My approach is to help you navigate to the new and become resourced, clearer and reconnected with a sense of flow. So, I’ll stay alongside and accompany you until you feel securely at home in the new.
“What makes her different? .....the way she’s able to get at the stuff that’s hard to get at, the bit under the surface you can’t quite reach or even understand yourself.....”
SVP European Retail
“You create a space that feels so calm and safe, it feels like you can slow down time. No matter what was going on for me prior to my sessions, the space you held allowed me to be completely open and honest and somehow that enabled the most important ‘thing’ to emerge, and yet I had no idea that ‘it’ was what I needed to explore! Every session resulted in a new discovery and I moved forward. It feels so tangible, it is transformational work every time. “
HR Director, European Distribution.
Her ability to understand and connect to the real root cause has allowed me to build sustainable choices that have supported and accelerated my leadership development.”
Chief People Officer, Retail
“Her quiet, understated manner should not deceive though. I found her both challenging and tough when the occasion demanded, which was highly impactful. She proved deft at holding my feet to the fire in a supportive way”
Senior Partner – International Law Firm
“I particularly value the holistic nature of the coaching provided – linked to systemic and gestalt theory and universal connections…understanding that ‘everything is connected to everything else’ and seeking the natural paths to making progress, building on strengths and insights.”
OD Leader, Civil Service
What we do
Systemic
Leadership Coaching
Transforming leaders and the systems they serve
Systemtic
Supervision
Nourishing practitioner growth
Systemic
Metavision™
Developing systemic stance for professional leads
Circles of Trust®,
Workshops, Events, Retreats
Walking our own paths, together